Non-westernized concepts of male sexuality

Non-westernized concepts of male sexuality may vary considerably from concepts of sexual orientation prevalent in Western culture.¹² Recent scholarship has questioned the applicability of Western concepts of sexual orientation and identity in non-Western cultures.³⁴ ⁵

The Western concept of sexual orientation is relatively recent in origin, coming into being during the last 150 years. In Western (and perhaps other westernized) cultures, a male who experiences sexual attraction to other men may be classified as bisexual or homosexual. (The use of such categories places him into the same classification as same-sex attracted males who cross-dress and engage flamboyantly in purportedly effeminate behavior.) In a number of other cultures, a male is defined by his (putatively internal) gender; in such a culture, a masculine gendered male (of any sexual orientation) might simply be labeled a man, and males putatively gendered as feminine (transvestites of any sexual preference, flamboyantly effeminate males who are believed to indulge in receptive anal sex, and transsexuals) would not be considered 'men' but would be classified as members of what is sometimes called the third sex, i.e. partly male and partly female.⁶ ⁷ ⁸

Views regarding the concept of sexual orientation

Essentialists maintain that sexual identities reflect deeply rooted sexual desires which can be neatly classified as heterosexual, homosexual, or (sometimes) bisexual. Social constructionists argue that sexual identities are socially constructed. Social constructionists assert that these identities are specific to certain cultures and historical periods. Historian David Greenberg, for instance, argues that the concept of homosexuality did not exist prior to the mid-nineteenth century. He argues that "the production and dissemination of a medical discourse in the recent past ... gave birth not just to the concept of a homosexual person, but also to homosexuals themselves, and at the same time, to their antitwins, heterosexual persons."⁹

Some evidence suggests that not all people have found that the categories introduced, according to Greenberg, in the nineteenth century are helpful in characterizing their own sexual identities. ¹⁰ Some researchers have argued that the majority of males in Western and Westernized cultures frequently engaged in same-sex sexual behaviours before the concept of sexual orientation was introduced, but avoid doing so now because of social pressures generated by the way male gender and sexuality has been socially constructed in the West, post-sexual orientation. Men who do acknowledge sexual attraction to other men experience significant isolation.¹¹¹²¹³

Ideas of gender and sexual orientation are closely linked. (The putatively homosexual identity exhibits some continuity with third sex identities¹¹ and is more closely associated by some modern Western stereotypes with putative femininity in males.¹⁴ The contemporary heterosexual identity is arguably more closely associated with putative masculinity and may reflect earlier delineations of mainstream men's spaces). Gender provides a lens through which cross-cultural (and intracultural) differences regarding male sexuality may appear particularly clear.

Cultural differences related to male sexuality

Strong men's spaces

As evidenced from published references from different parts of the traditional (non-westernised) non-western world (India, Indonesia, and certain countries in the Arab world)¹⁵), the society is often divided into men's, women's and third gender spaces.

The men's spaces are very strong in the sense that they guard against the process of heterosexualization—which has the effect of isolating and removing male-male sexuality from these spaces into a separate ghetto—and also provides men a lot of relief from pressures of social manhood (such as exaggerating one's sexual need for women, and suppressing one's sexual need for men). The strength of men's spaces can also be seen by the fact that these spaces resist the imposition of the western practice of isolation of same-sex male sexual bonds from these spaces, through the concept of homosexuality. Men's spaces refer to spaces which are exclusively for men, and where women are either not allowed or their entry is highly restricted. These spaces are extremely important for men and their manhood and very congenial to bonds between men, including sexual bonds. These sexual bonds are very open if the formal society is accepting, otherwise hidden to various degrees, depending upon how hostile the formal society is.¹⁶

Socially, men are extremely comfortable showing physical intimacy with other men, publicly, and its seen as masculine, something which according to the Western standards will be seen as gay and unmasculine, since only gays indulge in such intimacy in the West.¹⁷

It is said that before the heterosexualization of the West, similar openness about intimacy existed amongst who are today known as 'straight' men in the West.¹⁸

Perceptions of men’s sexual desires for other men as universal

Some anthropological research has suggested that in Afghanistan (Kandahaar), India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, Morocco and elsewhere, men's sexual desires for other men is understood as universal, and not the characteristic of one or more sexual minorities. According to this research, a man's display of sexual interest in another man in social environments in which this understanding is shared may not be seen as a sign of difference from the societal mainstream.¹⁹ Belief in the ordinariness and ubiquity of male same-sex desire may be freely acknowledged, as it apparently is in Kandahaar.²⁰²¹ In other cultural settings, same-sex desire may be openly acknowledged in spaces socially defined as male but denied in mixed gender spaces (e.g., in India).

Similar conceptions of the universality of sexual attraction between masculine men are documented in ancient Greece—popularly considered the precursor of modern Western culture—and in more recent Western sources that predate the construction of modern Western notions of gender and sexuality.¹²

Role of conception of “third gender” in shaping understanding and practice of male sexuality

In regions including South Asia,²² Southeast Asia,²³ Arab, Indigenous peoples of the Americas, and Polynesia, more than two genders are acknowledged, and usually there are three sexes or genders of humans beings. Apart from the masculine and feminine genders, there also is a third gender which is considered to be both masculine and feminine at the same time (or in some societies neither masculine nor feminine; neutral). It includes feminine gendered males, who are considered to have male “outer” sex but feminine gender. While there is no division on the basis of the Western pattern of sexual orientation, there is a strong division of the male population between masculine-gendered males and feminine-gendered males. While the former are referred to as "men", the latter are known as members of the third gender, regardless of (what might be referred to in the contemporary West as) their sexual orientation. The third sex is considered a separate gender category, and its members are not considered men or women but rather members of a neutral or intermediate gender.^{citation needed} Thus, sexual relations between a man and another man are not treated as equivalent to sexual relations between a man and a member of the third gender.^{citation needed}

Across the non-Western world, the western division of straight vs. gay is seen in terms of active vs. passive. Masculine males typically adopt active roles in sex with other males and are seen as equivalent to Western straight males, while third gender males typically adopt passive roles and are seen as gay. Thus straight and gay do not denote sexual orientation but (a) the masculinity or femininity of the male, and (b) whether he takes the active or passive role in sex with men.²⁴

In private, however, sex between two masculine males either does not involve anal sex or, if it does, is likely to be mutual, whereas sexual roles are strictly adhered to when masculine males have sex with feminine males.

Reaction to westernization

Westernized populations in India may follow both western as well as traditional concepts of sexuality.²⁵²⁶²⁷ However, when western constructs of sexuality are forced upon societies such as India in the context of AIDS activism, for example, it creates problems.²⁸

Non-Western cultures often resent the imposition of these Western definitions on them, but may be rendered helpless due to the economic and technological powers of the West.²⁷²⁶ ²⁹ ³⁰ ³¹ ³²

Contents

Views regarding the concept of sexual orientation

Cultural differences related to male sexuality

Strong men's spaces

Perceptions of men’s sexual desires for other men as universal

Role of conception of “third gender” in shaping understanding and practice of male sexuality

Reaction to westernization

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